14 EVERYDAY GIRL PROBLEMS


1. EYEBROWS

Every girl wishes to have a pair of nice eyebrows like Lily Collins or Cara Delevigne. Because #eyebrowsonfleek. But more often than not, we ended up looking like Shin-Chan.  If you are not familiar with Shin-Chan, this is him




EXPECTATIONS








2.  EYELINER
When I first started out with eyeliner , it took me a really long time before I was finally able to control and draw properly. However, sometimes things just don't quite go according to plan. *shrugs*. Yeap, #girlproblems




3. LIPSTICK ON TEETH

Oh yeah, it is now like Summer and Spring. And it is time to bring out the corals,pinks and reds to our lips! But remember to just check your teeth before you smile at a cute somebody....Otherwise, girl...that's not cute.


4. PERIOD AND WHITE DRESS

Worst day ever.


5. NOTHING TO WEAR

A wardrobe FULL of outfits and yet.....


6. SELFIE



7. ATTEMPTING TO WALK IN HEELS

EXPECTATIONS



 REALITY



8. WAXING/SHAVING 
because nobody likes hair everywhere else except on the scalp






9  DECIDING BETWEEN A HOT BODY AND HAVING THAT CHOCOLATE CAKE





10. BOOBS

If you have bigger boobs, you wish they weren't that big so that it would be easier for you to sleep on your tummy or to go running.
If you have smaller boobs, well you somehow wish they were bigger.

#neversatisfied



11. VERY AWKWARD BIKINI TAN LINES


12. HAIR IS NOT ON FLEEK

Sometimes I just feel like my hair is the best when I am just at home and not going anywhere.  However when I am out, it just gets really crazy, undefined and dry. Sigh.



13. TRYING TO TAKE A REAL NICE FULL LENGTH OR HALF LENGTH BODY PIC

So that really cute guy you have been crushing on finally asked you out but your lips are chappy as hell because of the lack of water and probably because you have been applying lipsticks too often that your lips start to get dry. Well here is how you can make your very own DIY Lip Scrub for less than $5.


What you will need is

• Vaseline ( Venus , $3.95) / Lip Butter
• Sugar
• A clean contact lense casing
• Cotton Bud/Spatula

 So first I cut off the cotton part of one side of the cotton bud as I need a stirrer to stir the vaseline and sugar together. It would have been better if you have a spatula, but cotton buds work just as fne.


Voila , like so. Next I added sugar into my contact lense casing.


And lastly, I added in the vaseline.


So once you have added them, they will look like this.

And you just stir it with your cotton bud until you get a consistent texture.


So once the final product is then, it will look something like this and then you can just leave it in the fridge for a while for it to be slightly cold and you can start putting them all over your lips and scrub them with a toothbrush.


heh sounds pretty easy right? Enjoy, girls <3

So you have been with your partner for a while now and things just don't seem to look good and you are probably think whether you should dump the him/her. Well these are 5 reasons why you probably should break up with them.

Hello everyone, I am finally back from my rather long study break. And I guess it is about time that I wrote another post.  So , as some of you may already know or not know, I am working full time at a hospital and a part time student at SIM doing my degree. I am just done with my 1st year and I still have a few more years to go before I can finally graduate. I am doing Human Resource for my degree. Before that, I was actually doing my degree in social work  but decided to change course due to lack of interest.

Juggling between school and study is not an easy task but it is pretty do-able as long as you are willing to put your hearts into it. There are lots of sacrifices to be made but it will all pay off eventually.  So here are a few tips if you are considering of doing your studies part time like me while doing a typical full time office hour job.


#1 - CHANGE OF PLANS
You will definitely need to make certain life c
hanges. Basically, you will need to now set aside time for your studies. So try to prioritise. I know it gets hard sometimes when your friends ask you to join them for a party but you are stuck with your assignments but these are just one or two of the changes that you have to make in future. If you were in poly or secondary school, sure you would have a lot of time because school is your main priority and half of your day is spent there and if you are free, you may finish up your assignments on the very day itself. For part time studies, your commitment and priorities just increased. You have to juggle between work, school, family and social life. So probably you can learn to prioritise on what you want to do. For me, I set aside a schedule for myself. To study and go to school on weekdays and revise on weekdays and Sundays and Saturday is basically a time for me to do my own things.


#2- CHOOSE A COURSE YOU LIKE
The most important thing of all is to actually choose a course that you like because it makes learning a lot easier and you would be motivated to go to class. You will be very interested during the lectures and it helps to keep you awake. Most part time classes are in the night, which is after work so most of us would actually feel really tired and probably spam lots of caffeine just to stay awake.


#3- IGNORE HATERS
No matter what you do, there will always be someone whom would look down on you and doubt you. Just learn to ignore them. Before I started on my degree, I was just randomly mentioning about how I was considering taking up a part time degree to my co-worker.  My co - worker then said " U can meh? I dont think you can lah. You sure will quit". Of course I got rather pissed off with that bitch but I decided to go ahead anyway and prove to her that I can. Haters are gonna hate and people will always be jealous of you and your capabilities so just ignore. You know yourself better than anyone else and you know your own strengths and weaknesses.

So there you have it, 3 simple but rather relevant tips that would probably help you if you are considering of doing part time studies. All the best people, and have a good week ahead. :)




XOXO ;
Chanelle Aretha

I don't normally get into keyboard fights but I honestly just couldn't help but laugh at people.
So, I just made a comment on Straits Times about this malay lady who was wearing a headscarf and was arrested because she abused her Indonesian maid.
So this was how it went .....

 I was only talking about that one makcik. That one, particular one. The one who got arrested because she abused her Indonesian maid.





I couldn't help but laugh to be honest. I am not offended that he called me cheap or a slut or spoilt because I don't even know him and if he is judging me because of my outfits and photos then good luck to him in life. LOL. Well in general, I made that comment because I always feel that Muslims who wear headscarfs are very respectful and wouldn't do things like abusing a maid. I just felt that it was a rather shameful act for her to be acting that way and it somehow got the attention of fellow Emy Ishak.  So I don't know how or why but he started attacking me. Probably too bored. LOL.

I know I am not a good Muslim and I am VERY aware of that but you know, whatever happens to me in my afterlife, Let God judge . Who are you to even judge me? LOL. So he stated assuming that I was cheap and that I am spoilt based on my photos. -_-
How is having photos that showed my boobs considered cheap and spoilt? Someone please explain it to me. And what's wrong with boobs? LOL.  If I really wanted to be cheap, I would have gone full out and probably have photos of myself in bed with different men and posted it online.
Spoilt? I don't remember posting photos of anything that is expensive or lavish or bragging about my new branded handbags or whatever. LOL.


The fella then started saying that I was insulting as a whole. -____- I was just talking about this particular "makcik". And how does me not being covered up have anything to do with abuse?

12.32am late night thoughts.
Sometimes I just get random ideas when I am in the shower or when I am just trying to settle myself down for bed and that is when I would start jotting down all the points I want to write and just grab my laptop and just start typing away. Hence, "naked shower thoughts". Hah.


So here is a comparison of how I feel dating was like when I was a teen and when I am in my 20s.


TEEN VS EARLY TWENTIES


WHEN CHECKING OUT GUYS

TEEN : OMG HE HAS SO MANY EX GIRLFRIENDS. HE IS SO POPULAR.
TWENTIES : OMG SO MANY FAILED RELATIONSHIPS AND HE IS ONLY 24? *RED FLAG*


WHEN BEING ASKED OUT 

TEEN : WANT TO GO TO MACDONALDS AFTER SCHOOL?
TWENTIES : FREE ON SATURDAY? MOVIE AND DINNER?


WHO FOOTS THE BILL

TEEN : I PAY FOR YOU OKAY? *well it is not really him paying the money. it is more like he is using his pocket money which his parents gave him to pay for your meal.*
TWENTIES : TAKING TURNS TO PAY BECAUSE IM NOT THAT KINDA GIRL WHOM WOULD ASK MY PARTNER TO PAY FOR MY BILLS.


TEXTING

TEEN : I LOVE YOU FOREVER AND EVER AND EVER......AND WE WILL BE TOGETHER FOREVER..........
TWENTIES : I LOVE YOU FOREVER AND EVER AND EVER......AND WE WILL BE TOGETHER FOREVER..........


DATE SETTING

TEEN : MACDONALDS/KFC, WHATEVER FAST FOOD RESTAURANT THAT IS IN THAT SHOPPING MALL THAT IS NEAREST TO YOUR SCHOOL.
TWENTIES : TOWN TOWN TOWN.


CONFESSING FEELINGS 


TEEN : YOU WILL SOMEHOW ALWAYS HAVE A FRIEND WHO WILL BE LIKE "EHHHHHH ________ LIKES YOU LEH". YEAP, FRIENDS ALWAYS THERE TO SABO YOU AND GIVING YOU THAT "HEH" FACE WHENEVER YOUR CRUSH WALKS PAST YOU



TWENTIES : UHM I LIKE YOU (VIA WHATSAPP)


BE MY GIRLFRIEND?


TEEN :U WANT TO STEAD? / AI STEAD MAI?
TWENTIES : OH BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND?OKAY LOR. HAHA.




So there you go. Just a short blogpost just for entertainment purposes. Hope you liked it. I am kinda busy with preparation for exams right now. Will be back soon! X :)

As time goes by, I feel that I am slowly getting more and more insecure about the people around me and I am beginning to lose trust in people. The feeling gets worst each day and I am tired of everyone. I am tired of people giving me false hopes and making empty promises. Why do you do that?

I don't blame people or think that people are being too insecure. You know sometimes it is experiences that make people that way. Maybe we used to have a trust level of 100%, being too naive and then we got taken advantage of and slowly we just feel the need to not trust someone so much. I've had my share of heartbreaks and I sometimes blame myself for being too nice and naive. I always like to see the good in others no matter what other people tell me because I don't like judging someone whom I don't know. I have been bailed on so many times before by guys. They would just tell me to meet at blabla at about whatever time and when I reached there , I just get bailed. I would wait for about 2 hours and I will just leave. I know right, why wait so long? But I guess I just felt that maybe he was caught up in traffic somewhere. I called and left a few texts but no reply.

After being bailed for many many times, I guess you will eventually get used to it.It is not a nice feeling to be bailed without any legit reason. I mean even if you think that I am ugly in real life and not what or how you thought I would be, you are not a nice person and you definitely do not deserve to be my friend. And I don't really mind actually that you don't want to be my friend because I don't like shallow people. If you are judging me based on my looks then it is better off that I do not know you at all.

I am tired of hearing promises because promises that people made to me, most of them are just empty promises. Promises which don't hold a meaning but I guess to them it is not that important. I don't get it. Why do people grow up to be so vicious? Was there a problem with how they grew up? You don't just make promises with someone just because you want to feel good about it. Put yourself in the other party's shoes for once. Think about it. What if someone made you feel that way? If you can't promise someone something then don't even mention the thing. It is because of people like you that made trust an issue for others. You are just being selfish because all you ever cared about was your own feelings and not others. When you make promises with someone, you made the other party put in hope that something WILL happen when it actually don't.

I don't know what I did or if I have offended anyone but I just felt that I don't deserve that treatment. Wait, no one deserves to be treated that way because it is not nice. I do not wish for it to happen to anyone because the feeling is horrible. Can you imagine? Being bailed? Please don't waste other people's time and honestly, don't bother asking me why I am reluctant to meet people nowadays because of all these incidents.

Hello everyone! It's been a while since I last posted about something and today I just feel like talking about  how people to take things for granted. I , myself , am not ashamed to say that I tend to take things for granted and then regret after that. And it seems to happen so often at times that even if I tell myself that I should change or feel remorse, I keep repeating the same mistakes again.


Nobody likes being taken for granted but somehow I guess it is just in human nature that we take things for granted. How often do you say thank you to someone you love or hear a thank you from someone you love ?


Life can be so fast-paced at times that we often neglect our parents, our siblings, our friends and  our significant other. We hardly feel appreciation towards them maybe because in the back of our minds, we are just subconsciously telling ourselves "Nah they wouldn't mind" or maybe not even have any feelings at all. Instead sometimes we tend to just scold them if they happened to fuck things up unintentionally.When we scold them, we never really spare a thought about how the other party is feeling. They would either keep quiet and feel sad or just get fed up with your behaviour and just give up on you and leave.



Make a difference and say thank you to your loved ones as a sign of appreciation for everything that they have done for you. If you have been too caught up with school or work, put in an effort to be around your loved ones. Time is precious and life is short. We will never know how long more we will live. It's May the Fourth and may the fourth be with you.Have a great week ahead. :)