#WANNABEMYBOYFRIEND?

01:10:00

It has definitely been a really really long time since I last touched this space. I am sorry about that as I was busy with school assignments and all. Nothing much happened lately and I kind of have no idea what to blog about and what the heck, I just came up with the "BOYFRIEND MATERIAL" post. Before that I was reading this article about High Maintenance Girlfriends and I felt like some of the points listed were pretty relatable to me, in terms of boyfriend. Thus, the post. Do note that the pointers are not based on what I think is important. I am just listing them as they come in my mind.


#1 GUYS WHO KNOW HOW TO DRESS WELL

First impression really matters to me therefore I feel that a guy must dress appropriately whenever he is meeting me because I feel that we need to "match". I probably won't like it if my boyfriend dresses in t shirt , berms and slippers if we are heading to town. Those are only acceptable if you are going to the beach or the zoo. I like guys in long sleeved button up tops. I know, people are gonna be like "u want your bf to die from heatstroke ah?". But seriously, doesn't it just kill you in the ovaries when guys are like in their formal wear or whatever? LOL.


#2  GUYS WHO SMELL GOOD

UGHHHHH ULTIMATE WEAKNESS. Don't judge me but I have this weird habit of asking my exes or boyfriend to spritz a little of their cologne on a soft toy if they are getting because....OMG they smell damn good.


#3 GUYS WHO SHOW RESPECT

By respect, I don't mean getting yourself bullied by the girlfriends but it just turns me on if a guy can respect a woman or his parents. I feel that nowadays, it is pretty rare to find such guys.


#4 GUYS WHO CAN UNDERSTAND ME AND ARE PATIENT

I feel that in a relationship, it takes two to clap. I am not a perfect person and I do have a series of mood swings. Not a lot of people can understand me. So if he is patient and is willing to understand me, then it's all good.

#5  GUYS WHO AREN'T THAT CALCULATIVE

To be honest, it says a lot about a guy if he is the calculative sort. I am definitely not one of those girls who wants a guy to pay for everything. I am fine doing a 50-50 with a guy but not to the extent that he is super ngiao to like every single cent. It's just...ugh. No.

#6  MONEY

Who doesn't love money? For me , I feel that it is important that whoever the guy is, he is good at managing his finances.  Because if you plan to get married and start a family, these are a few qualities which is important. You can't possibly marry someone who is going to depend on you for money especially if you are a woman. If you are doing that, then why are you still married to him? Get a divorce.

#7 MAKES HIS OWN DECISIONS

I do agree that there are sometimes things that you need to discuss with people but I feel that sometimes in life, you just have to make your own decisions. People will always give you their opinions of things but at the end of the day, you are the one who is writing your own story. And if I am your girlfriend, I will support you no matter what as long as you are doing something good for yourself.

#8 CHEMISTRY

THEM CHEMISTRY'S GOTTA BE STRONG.
HAHAHA.. sigh i've always envied couples who are soulmates and best friends all in one. Sigh hopefully one fine day, I'll be that girl :')



OF COURSE THE LIST GOES ON AND ON ACTUALLY BUT THESE ARE WHAT I CAN THINK OF RIGHT NOW. OBVIOUSLY, EVERY GIRL WANTS A BOYFRIEND WHO WILL SHOWER THEM WITH LOVE AND CARE SO THOSE...I DON'T NEED TO MENTION.


hahahah till next time <3



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2 comments

  1. Hi you are a very pretty girl,I hope I am standard that you like(after reading,I know I can do it).
    Can you post something about yourself?

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  2. Hi can you list of more detail guy you prefer?
    What race you like him to be? what job scoop?.....???

    Detail about yourself
    are you malay? indian? chinese? Religious? work as? Age?

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